I am sure that we have all been through the nightmare has been dumped by our boyfriend or girlfriend. At the moment it is something we expect, but more often than not come as a big surprise. In this situation it is very difficult to take, and in this article I give free tips on how to cope in this situation.
I have several girlfriends, most of which have decided to end the relationship. As a teenager though wounded my pride, I must say that it does not really bother me. I’m on the stage who have never met anyone who actually say, do it for me. Even most of the girls / women is quite annoying. They are either:
Too sticky and wanted to see me every day, want me to call them seemingly every hour and became upset when I want to see my friends.
A crier, what I mean by that is that they will cry over the smallest things and basically too emotional.
Types of jealousy. I’m not one to cheat, but this kind of girls would always accuse me of seeing or fancying others.
Believed. This is a girl I knew only interested in playing field and that basically only worth dating for a bit of fun.
I then met when I was about twenty one girl who seems too good to be true. He was not on top and we got on so well it’s scary.
All my life, I have a dream to live by the beach as much as I love the sea. I come from a big city and do not live very happily in the fast pace of life. I missed the existence of adequate and quiet.
After about two years with a new boyfriend, we decided that we will live together and that we would make my dream move. I am very pleased and we moved to the southwest coast of England for the Devon area.
I am very happy in my new house, but my girlfriend soon became homesick. He misses his friends, parents and the family pet. We are now seeing each other basically all day everyday, where we only spend about four nights a week together when we lived in town. We do not know who lives in Devon and things began to get tense.
My girlfriend is now a very moody and often stated that he wanted to move back. I certainly do not want and hope that he will soon grow to love Devon, as I do, and that he will meet new friends. I’m still very happy to stay with her and feel assured that it’s just teething pain.
One day I arrived back at the bungalow where we lived, after doing some food shopping. I opened the door that surprised me was locked. His car was not there and I wondered where he might have gone to. When I entered the living room, to my horror, I discovered that many things are no longer there. Pictures I had purchased, dvd player, stereo and many ornaments that had been taken. I look around the rest of the bungalow and found many other items also missing.
Suddenly I realized that she had left me, and also taken because you have read a lot of things. I do not care about any of the items but wipe out that she had obviously dumped me. I sat in a chair and could not stop crying.
I then decided to call but half way through dialing the number I stopped myself. I sit and think about what I might have done wrong. I can not think of something big, I did not hit him, I’m not cheating, the only thing I could think was that I did not agree to return to town with him.
I decided not to call him and start thinking about all the things I like about him, such as changes in mood. There will be no more tears and instead I’ll celebrate with a single a couple of beers and by ordering a pizza. She hated me drinking beer, but now I can.
I think in a positive way about the future and determined to stay in Devon. I’ll meet other people thought.
That’s not easy to think this way and I miss her, I have had after all dated her for a long time. He apparently did not miss me, but as he did not phone me once to see how I am. It makes me angry and really made me think that I might be able to do better. How he would react if I did something wrong, if this is how he will react when I’m not, I thought. I would have at least thought he could give me ultimatem, for example I’ll leave you if you do not move back with me. The problem is what I would do later.
As luck had it, I actually met my present fiancee the day after this all happened. We now have a child together and I could not be happier.
In conclusion, always think in a positive way, if you’ve done nothing wrong in your mind, there’s nothing to worry about. The person who has abandoned you may not be feasible as well as the whole ethos of a good relationship, is about support and about sticking together through good times and bad. If they will run at the first sign of trouble they may not be the person you think they are.